Pissed off. With Dani. For being so selfish. With TJ for not taking care of himself. For lots of other people constantly hanging about to grab good advise from me without acting on it.
I tend to hint too much. I should give one piece of advise and when the next occasion comes up make clear I am not the fucking mom, ppl are old enough to pick up on the obvious themselves and leave it at that. I am too nice in a very "please don't hate me" way. GO on, hate me, don't care. If that helps you all get your fucking lives sorted, great. If not, it's a waste of time and your loss not mine.
So here goes, for everyone who needs obvious advise:
Coming to work unshowered and grimey: not a good look, anti-social and unattractive.
Being ill for the 5th time in a month: not a good idea.
Being unhappy in a situation and not trying to get out of it: dumb. you probably deserve the mess you're in for not helping yourself!
Not doing things and just making promises: unfair and bottomlinely ridiculous.
Complaining but not turning anger into motion: helpess!
Taking but not giving: selfish.
Not cleaning up after oneself (and possibly partner, too): Double (triple) selfish.
Delaying things until ater all the time: immature and unaware of consequences.
Avoiding confrontation: childish!!!
GROW THE FUCK UP!
Glad I had somewhere to vent, because for all the people actually close to me this is mainly too close to home.
3 comments:
mh. calm down. most people have some unpleasant things in their life that they wont ever get sorted or will only after lots and lots of time, and that they still have to talk about every now and then. and be it only to hear that there is a solution. that alone is sometimes nice.
dont get too upset about this. youre really not anybodys mom (thank god for that! :D)
sending love.
oh, and by the way - im "beautiful" again, with all that hair. its pretty much back to normal length again. i HATE it. im behaving like a gigglishly stupid babygirl! moving like that, talking like that.
im only glad once ive gotten it down again.
you know, this is an old post. daniela has now gone on to actually not talking to me anymore,or the letting agency. shes turned out to be a cunt. tj and me are moving together :D
elena, if the length of your hair affects your behaviour something is wrong. i don't know what you are rebelling against. its odd. my dad and andrea are coming over here next month. YAY!
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